A Heart in Two Worlds: July 2010

Adoption Timeline

Sept. 13, 2010: ADOPTION DAY!!
May 2010: Find out we have a Haitian adoption decree from December 2009.
Jan. 24, 2010: Islande and Katiana join us in the U.S.!
Jan. 12, 2010: 7.0 Quake hits Haiti
Dec. 6, 2009: Happy 5th Birthday, Katiana!
Nov. 12, 2009: Hear we're in Civil Court awaiting the judge's approval.
Oct. 24-28, 2009: Jodie makes sixth trip (Mark makes second) to Haiti to sign a blank notebook to "prove" we want our girls. We also find out on the trip that we exited Parquet in June or July 2009, but have sat in limbo since then.
Sept. 26, 2009: Fingerprints done for third time; also find out we have to go to Haiti to "prove" we want our girls.
June 8, 2009: News our file has been submitted to Parquet (I don't know what date we went in).
May 16, 2009: Receive word that we have IBESR approval! Now it's off to Parquet.
April 4, 2009: Jodie hears from several friends that she and Mark are listed in the March 2, 2009, edition of Le Moniteur as having received dispensation. Still awaiting to hear about IBESR.
March13-18, 2009: Jodie makes fifth trip to Haiti. Files are STILL in dispensation (again).
March 5, 2009: Happy 9th Birthday, Islande!
January 20, 2009: Second homestudy update, preparing for I-171H update (grrrrrr).
January 16, 2009: Request 2nd extension of I-72/I-600 since signing in July.
December 6, 2008: Happy 4th Birthday, Katiana!
July 19-24, 2008: Fourth trip to Haiti to sign I-600
July 1, 2008: Update fingerprints and take certificates to State Department for authentication; send docs with friends to Haiti July 8.
June 28: We actually do need to have "Certificate of Good Communal Living," which must be notarized, authenticated, translated and legalized before sending to Haiti -- NOW!
June 26, 2008: Hear from social worker that "Certificate of Good Communal Living" not required; but also that I have to travel to Haiti to sign I-600
June 16, 2008: IBESR wanting another "Certificate of Good Communal Living" from us, even though we did one in January
May 5, 2008: We hear we're out of dispensation
March 5, 2008: Happy 8th birthday, Islande!
February 2008: Third trip to Haiti
February 2008: Find out we're in dispensation (renewed step within IBESR)
February 2008: Home study expiring. Have to pay to update.
January 2008: Receive word that IBESR requests a letter stating how long Mark and I have known each other
December 6, 2007: Happy 3rd Birthday, Katiana!
October 7, 2007: We hear we're in IBESR. Files 15810 and 15811
August 24, 2007: We have First Legalization
August 2007: Dossier complete in time for Jodie to hand-deliver dossier to Haiti on mission trip
June 2007: We make our first trip to Haiti. God chooses for us Islande and Katiana
April 2007: Russia shuts down U.S. adoptions until further notice
April 2007: God switches our gears from Russia to Haiti.
April 2007: Differences between adoption and home study agencies force us to choose one. We stay with home study agency.
March 2007: Receive overwhelming instructions for dossier
February 2007: Finish home study
December 2006: Begin home study
November 2006: Sent application for Russian adoption

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Family Reunion in Kansas, Day 1

The girls and I left for Kansas on July 20 and met up with my family in Dodge City, Kansas. This was the first meeting between Esther and Zoe and my nieces, Samantha (13), Sarah (11), and Rachel (9). The girls have hit it off famously! And my dad is surrounded by his girls (Mark and Rebecca's husband, Rick, couldn't come because of work commitments).

The girls with Grandma & Grandpa Green, Auntie Becca,
Samantha, Sarah and Rachel in Dodge City.

Zoe with Auntie Becca.

The girls in jail at Boot Hill at the Dodge City museum.

Esther with cousin Samantha.

Charis and cousin Rachel.

My dad's girls in front of the school house at Dodge City.

Shoot out

Mommy and her girls in the hotel pool in Dodge.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

People Say the Darnedest Things

My friend Tisha, also an adoptive parent, recently wrote a fabulous post about our "lucky" adopted kids. I love how she's able to voice what I cannot (or will not).

Monday, July 05, 2010

Happy Birthday, America!

We went to New Mexico for the holiday weekend.

On Saturday, the girls baked and decorated cookies with Auntie Kim.

And Grandma taught Esther how to use the overlock machine to make us more fabric napkins.

After going in the pool and hot tub, I started on Esther's hair. I was only going to do twists, but saw Grandma had red, white and blue beads, including star-shaped ones, so I caved and beaded all of Esther's twists (and did a couple on Zoe). It took me three hours on Saturday night, and then four more on Sunday morning, to finish Esther's hair.